Family Reunion Flashback

Jai and Beeb - 2003

On Saturday, Jai and I drove down to Milwaukie for his family’s annual reunion. Every year, I look forward to hanging out with everybody and seeing relatives who live out of state. After we got home, I realized that this is the 10th reunion since Jai and I started dating – wow! I found this photo from the first of his family reunions that I ever attended back in 2003. Time flies when you’re having fun!

I Was Not Paid For This Post

While blog hopping today, I saw a fun post from blogger pal Chelsea at Someday, I’ll Learn. She was recently featured on NBC along with La Jolla Mom during a great segment about the business of blogging. I loved hearing both women weigh in about what’s been successful for their personal brands.

During the piece, it is mentioned that this is “A business that could easily be abused”, asking the viewer, “Can you trust a blogger that is paid to write about a particular toy, or camera, or baby food?” I hear this come up in most articles about professional blogging, and I have a perspective that I don’t often hear discussed. I’ve been a journalist for 16 years, and I ended up transitioning from freelance writing for other publications to spending 100% of my time writing for my own outlets; my blogs are essentially an online magazine that I own and edit. And because I am a journalist, I always chuckle when people tut-tut over bloggers – gasp! – getting paid for their content. These same individuals do not seem to have an issue with a magazine that features an advertiser’s product in their “Best-of” list, or product placement in television shows.

The FTC reasons that magazines and television shows don’t need to make the same type of disclosures as blogs, because the material connection is “Usually clear to the audience” by implication. I might disagree with that point, but I understand that blogs are a new medium, so let’s give them the benefit of the doubt. But it’s certainly true that bloggers are held to a higher standard in many other ways: For example, recent revisions in the FTC guidelines say that websites must place disclosures prior to any links, in case someone clicks off the page before they read the whole article. And that’s all well and good – but think about the last time you watched TV. For example, one of my favorite shows is The Voice, and Starbucks is one of their sponsors; you will see the judges drinking Starbucks in almost every episode. Does Adam Levine stand up at the beginning of the show and say, “Starbucks is paying advertising fees and provided me with this free cup of coffee?” No. You do see sponsor ad spots dotted through the commercial breaks – but what if you changed the channel before the ad came on? Would you then have been mislead into thinking that Adam Levine just buys a ton of Starbucks on his own? What about diet commercials the the back of magazines with the disclaimer in the fine print – are they responsible if the reader stops paying attention halfway through and doesn’t read the disclaimer in tiny font at the very bottom of the page?

Don’t misunderstand, I am happy and want to disclose my connection with all clients – I even joke about it, with posts where I am provided with big money compensation like mustard samples. I would just like to see my print and television colleagues be equally transparent in their work with clients, especially since they reach a much larger audience than I do. Journalism as a whole continues to take a nosedive in quality, with reporters so desperate to create a story that they publish ludicrous, unverified material as facts in an attempt to get a “Scoop” – take, for example the recent blunder of a news program reading out absurd fake names of Asiana Flight 214 pilots. I’ve always held journalistic integrity in the highest regard and at every point in my career, I have been painstaking to research every point and verify the accuracy of quotes, names and claims. When I quite literally put more effort into researching a blog post about biscuits than TV programs do for actual news, that’s a serious problem.

While I may roll my eyes at the grand accusations of bloggers being unethical and dishonest because they got a free pair of socks, it doesn’t unsettle me. There is a reason why I don’t even bother freelancing for print magazines or other traditional media outlets anymore – the future is in the Internet, so I spend that time continuing to build content that benefits my own brand. I’m actually stunned that so many of my print colleagues haven’t done this themselves; media outlets are only shooting themselves in the foot by crying foul about blogs while continuing to ignore their own sinking ship.

How do you feel about advertising in the media?

They’re Going to Revoke my Nerd Card When They Read This

Thor: The Dark World

I’ve loved comics since I was a child. You’ve seen the photos of me as a toddler having a tea party while dressed as Spider-Man. You’ve seen the comic book themed parties that I’ve hosted, and my superhero costumes. So I’m going to lose all my comic nerd cred here: I am seriously behind on all the comic book movie adaptations that have come out in recent years. Thor: The Dark World is already coming out and I haven’t even seen the first one yet. I know! The fact that I’m way behind on movie viewing should come as no surprise, since it took me a decade to watch Memento. The funny thing is, I’ve actually seen the South Park parody of Thor, but not the actual movie itself. That seems to be a theme in my life, because I also saw the South Park parody of Inception before I saw that movie, too. I was actually able to follow the plot of Inception a lot better for having seen the South Park version first…

Anyway, I’d like to see this one when it comes out, since Thor is a character whose origin story hasn’t been done to death yet. Batman is my favorite comic character, but there’s only so many reboots I can stand because I already know the whole story inside out, back to front. And I have no excuse, because the first Thor is on Netflix so it will be easy to catch up. Well, actually, I do have ONE excuse, namely that I haven’t turned on a TV or watched Netflix in about 2 months because I’ve been so busy. I did watch one Power Rangers DVD, but that was just so that I could write an article – I wouldn’t have had time otherwise. Come to think of it, if the only TV I’ve watched all summer is Power Rangers, then perhaps my nerd card is safe after all.